Before entering any action, you must calculate in precise terms your exit strategy. How exactly will the engagement end, and where will it leave you? If the answers to those questions seem vague and full of speculation, if success seems all too alluring and failure somewhat dangerous, you are more than likely taking a gamble. Your emotions are leading you into a situation that could end up a quagmire.
Before that happens, catch yourself. And if you do find you have made this mistake, you have only two rational solutions: either end the conflict as quickly as you can, with a strong, violent blow aimed to win, accepting the costs and knowing they are better than a slow and painful death, or cut your losses and quit without delay.
Never let pride or concern for your reputation pull you farther into the morass; both will suffer far greater blows by your persistence. A short-term defeat is better than a long-term disaster. Wisdom knows when to end.
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