Due to so many complexities, people get confused more often. In confusion, they do not believe themselves instead believe in others.
When someone doesn't believe in himself, how can he be confident? These days, more people believe in others and lose confidence even though more tools are available, technology is here to help.
I was also one of them who believe in others and doubts themselves. In fact, many times, I believed others without questing. And it became a habit. It was a bad habit. It became impossible to break this habit.
How can you break this habit and start believing in yourself?
The first thing is, only you can change your life. People think that someone will help them and it will change - No. If you are not ready, no one can help. The second thing is, focus on creating a solution. People think and say more about the problem instead of finding the solution. The third thing is, focus on finding the truth. When you have truth with you, you will be more confident and believe in yourself.
Once I started believing myself more, things started changing rapidly. How did I do it? I started observing my thoughts silently and started questing them. By analyzing my thoughts, I found that I have stored the information without doing myself. So, I changed it by doing the things that I could do and leaving others.
This way, I started gaining confidence by doing things. We more often believe the people, we think are best in their field. But what if they have observed something 10 years back and is no more relevant or no more relevant to your situation.
So, find out what is in your control, and you can do. And start doing as if you are conducting a test. Take everything as a test. If the test is successful, move ahead. If the test is failed, conduct another test but do not stop. This way, you will keep moving and becoming more and more confident in whatever you do.
What can you do to gain confidence?
1. First, check what is in your control and what you can do. If something is out of control, do not even attempt it. 2. Do not blindly assume even if something is suggested by best. 3. Finally, do it. If you don't do something, you won't be confident.
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